I’ve worked and lived to give help to others for a time… the act of punishing is of errant thinking… teaching takes time and repetition – but it works to build character – punishing builds bitterness and resentments and rarely works as expected – thus the one giving the punishment too is hurt. Attack is insane – God made us to be as He is… loving.
By Jackie Saulmon Ramirez | March 26, 2014
If a parent punishes a child, what does a child learn from that?
When we teach children properly they learn self-discipline and self-restraint.
‘Punishment’ is a very ugly word and I wish parents would take that word, write it down on a sheet of paper, then wad it up and throw it in the trash because that is where it belongs. The word itself feels heavy on the heart and begs to be spat out of the mouth. When a child hears the word they feel dread and become less than they were before. I want parents to stop using that horrible word. The word I want parents to use in place of that word is DISCIPLINE. Discipline is lyrical, strengthening, uplifting and educating word.
When most parents say punishment, what they really mean is discipline; discipline means ‘to teach…
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